Talking

Talking with people is the best (really only) way to get to know them. You find out what they like and don't like, what they're interested in, where they plan on going. You get to talk about things you do or don't have in common, explain why you think the way you do, or even just ramble on about something that makes you happy. It's especially great when you're thoroughly enjoying the conversation. This works when you both have the time, attention, and excitement for each other's company/opinions. Then you just click, and can go on and on about whatever. It's a wonderful feeling when you find someone you can talk to with that much enthusiasm, and it opens the door for a better connection with that person; it gives you a chance to find your mentor, best friend, or soul mate.